Posted on June 23rd, 2017 by wombwithaviewblog.com

Ultrasound gender determination can be tricky!

female fetus, 16 Weeks pregnant

Female Gender

male fetus, 16 Weeks pregnant

Male Gender

 

How many times have all you moms out there, young and old, heard the story that goes, “They told her it was a ‘this,’ and they decorated an entire nursery, and it came out a ‘that’! Those ultrasounds are wrong sometimes, ya know!”

A dollar for every one of THOSE comments would buy me my dream cottage on the Amalfi coast! However, I understand why this happens, and sonographers everywhere need to apply more discretion. First of all, you may already know that it’s not the machine that’s wrong. The sonographer or observer scanning you evaluates what she sees and determines Baby’s sex. And inexperience and/or caving to the pressure from persistent parents will often cause a sonographer to guess…and, unfortunately, sometimes guess incorrectly.

Advice Regarding Gender Determination for the New Sonographer

First rule of thumb for any newbie sonographer out there…IDON’T GUESS! I don’t put a percentage on my guess, and I don’t say “I think.” I also don’t say “It kinda looks like ‘this,’ but let’s wait until next time.” Parents may want you to guess, but they also want you to be RIGHT! And this last statement is what I typically will share with parents when they become red-faced by my unwillingness to toss out a quasi-guess based on a quasi-image. And, believe me, I’ve had more than my fair share of patients angry with me for something I have no control to change. We can’t just flip Baby in there at will.

The problem with saying “I think..” is that psychologically and emotionally most parents start to really become attached to this guess. They have already envisioned the first dance recital or baseball game by the time the next ultrasound exam rolls around. It’s so true. Mostly, someone else guessed incorrectly (usually, too early!), and I had to be the bearer of bad news. I decided to adopt a personal policy to ONLY offer a guess when I didn’t have to guess! In other words, Baby had to be in a perfect position with an easily seen penis and scrotum or labia/clitoris.

True Story!

One grandmother, so excited by the doctor’s early guess, flew right out and bought thirty-two dresses! Yep, 32. She did so despite the doc’s warning about his level of confidence and told her to wait for the sonogram with me. Fortunately, he got lucky with his baby girl guess, and grandma was a very happy woman (and a little less rich)! However, you can imagine the disappointment in returning all those frilly frocks if doc was wrong. I always hated giving such news!

Please, patients! Please remember your sonographer doesn’t withhold information about fetal sex just because. We’d actually really rather all our babies cooperate after five seconds of examination and that our patients didn’t leave the room cursing our existence. A button to make Baby flip on command? Now that’s a magic trick I’d like to patent:)

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wwavblogger, RDMS
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2 thoughts on “Pink or Blue-Ultrasound Gender Determination

  1. Destiny says:

    I’ll never forget the time I told this very nice, however persistent couple that it looked like a girl but I emphasized that I wasn’t sure. I said to NOT buy anything yet and they could come back in a couple weeks and I would look again. I thought I made myself quite clear. Well, they did come back and thank the good Lord I was right because they’d spent $100 on garage sale GIRL clothes! Good lesson for ME!!!

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