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Mr Bolaji said finding victims was a s game. There young men work sometimes in groups, sometimes individually, and pretend to be both men and women online. Out of two, one may not be able to spend money. Cyber-security expert Prof Alan Woodward says scammers much prefer to operate within a private environment, away from the chance of being seen by others - whether that's a direct messaging platform or a locked social media.
He was almost certainly not the man in the photo. The money, particularly if sent by wire transfer, is generally gone forever. Instagram deleted it when I complained, but declined to tell me whereabouts in the world it had been registered. There was no reason for him to be in the place where he claimed to be. I only found out when people started messaging me to ask what was going on. He confessed to feeling guilty about the practice. Alexander's uniform and rank didn't match the role he said he had or the unit he said he was in.
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Faking it. Despite being deployed on a "top secret mission" in a highly dangerous part of the world, "Alexander" managed to message Beth all the time. But one will surely send. It happened to my friend Beth. I think we're all vulnerable to it in the right situation.
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It was all in the form of private messages from an bearing my name and my face. For scammers it's worth the risk, as the pay-out can be huge.
There are people who work to try to help romance scam victims, and they hear plenty of horror stories. Beth is adamant that she would not have sent any - but scammers are super-persuasive, says Ms Forte. Published 13 July Published 11 February Published 15 May Alexander contacted Beth on a dating platform, but he very quickly asked her to switch to a messaging app. One day she mentioned that she had met a man online who was in the military. Five will comply.
She was later killed by her husband.
I noticed myself that, after making my own Instagram private, I was deluged with follow requests and private messages, all apparently from men, many of them claiming to have military positions. She thought it was a neat coincidence, because my partner is also in the armed forces. Mr Nicas tracked Ms Holland's scammer down to Nigeria - where romance scammers are rife. The long game. It was sickening, alarming and infuriating. In fact, telling someone else is probably your best chance of not getting sucked in.
More on this story. Two will have. But the more she told me, the louder the alarm bells rang. In the few weeks that Alexander was messaging my friend Beth, he did not ask for any cash. I wondered how the real people in the photos the scammers were using would feel if they knew, and I then got a small taste of it myself when someone set up a fake Instagram using my pictures, and started messaging people - mainly men I believe - saying it was my "secret" space.
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Telling Beth was hard. Loneliness and lockdown exploited in romance scams.
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US 'scam hostage' freed after year in Nigeria hotel. If it hadn't been for the coincidence of our t military connection, Beth probably wouldn't have mentioned him to me or anyone else - he had already spun a web of secrecy around his job.
He interviewed a man called Akinola Bolaji, a year-old Nigerian who said he had once been a "Yahoo Boy", as romance scammers are colloquially known. We only have his word for it.
That is not surprising, says Mr Nicas. But security experts have warned that there's been an increase in all sorts of online fraud during the coronavirus pandemic. The military represents "authority, trust, romance" for many people, says New York Times reporter Jack Nicas, who made a documentary about romance scammers and their victims.
Perhaps it was even Alexander, finding me via Beth's followers. He was handsome, charming and affectionate. Where to go for help. Out of the five, three may not have money. Mr Bolaji claims to have stopped romance scamming because he is now in a genuine relationship with a lady in the US state of Georgia.
A quick search reveals that there are plenty out there though. I'll probably never know exactly what the "fake me" said and to whom.
When she showed me a photo, my heart sank. You may well think you'd never fall for a romance scam, that they're cheesy, inauthentic and very obviously after your cash. Related Topics.